After waiting for what it seems like an eternity, today I am single again!  For whatever reason, today, in court (we were there AGAIN for different reasons), EX decided he would be able to face the judge and finalize the process. 22 months after filing for divorce, it has actually happened.   I have lost … More Divorced!

Life Changes

Sometimes it’s really hard for me to look back and see how my life was “before” and now what it’s like at the present. The one example I’ll give is what I’m missing most lately.  My hobbies. Especially gardening. Summer, not too long ago, meant a huge garden, harvesting, up keeping the garden, preserving what … More Life Changes

Two Years

It’s been two years since LOML and I reconnected.  TWO years.  It is hard for me to fathom that time has flown by and I have been supported by this wonderful, caring and supporting man. My heart is happy and he makes me laugh. However, on the flip side, it means that my divorce continues … More Two Years

Suck it Up

Is this truly possible to do through life? I know at my kids’ school, they are often asked if they can “life with it” – “it” being a decision, a compromise, a situation.  In fact, it is one of my son’s favorite phrases.  He tells me he can “live with it” or tells his sister … More Suck it Up


So last week, LOML told me that when he was breaking up with a long time girlfriend, many years ago, she screamed at him, “one day I hope you will find true love.” He said he never knew what she meant.  Then he told me he had.   With. Me.  He had never known true … More Love